Most teens don't want to talk about masturbation. Even though it might feel embarrassing to talk about it, many teens do it.
In fact, more than half of 14-year-old boys admit they've masturbated. That means at least one out of every two of your guy friends has done it -- even if they won't admit to it. (About half of the girls in your class are doing it, too.)
On the way to manhood, your body is going to do a lot of things that you really, really wish it wouldn’t. Pimples will pop up everywhere, and so will hair. You’ll drip sweat and you will stink. You’ll get erections when you least expect – or want – them.
Sound bad? Sure. But remember these four things:
Every boy goes through this (though not in exactly the same way or on the same schedule).
It is normal (no matter how hard that is to believe).
None of it will go on forever (even though...
You'll run out of sperm and won't be able to have children.
Other people will know just by looking at you.
None of these things is true. Masturbation won't hurt you and no one will know that you're doing it unless you tell them.
About the only risk to masturbation is that it might irritate the skin of your penis. You can reduce that risk by using a lubricant such as lotion or K-Y Jelly.
Is it bad or dirty to masturbate?
Masturbation isn't bad or dirty. It's a normal part of your sexuality. You shouldn't feel any guilt or shame about doing it. Feeling guilty about masturbation can make you think badly about yourself. And that can be unhealthy.
Is it OK not to masturbate?
Whether or not you masturbate is up to you. There is nothing wrong with choosing to do it or not to do it.